LAST UPDATED: October 20, 2020
Welcome to www.TransformativeParent.com, the parenting blog of Dr Edward Haas, author of Transformative Parenting: The Empathic, Empowering Approach to Optimal Parenting and Personal Growth, and founder of the Institute for Transformative Parenting!
Blog comments, and especially the forum are available for you to use. We require registration in order to keep things polite, and at most PG rated. Offensive or spam content will be removed. Repeat offenders will be banned. Everyone else is welcome.
While Dr. Haas is a doctor, he is more than likely not your doctor. Since he hasn’t done a formal, person to person evaluation of you, he doesn’t know your particular situation; which could change his advice completely. Weigh what he says in light of your circumstances. If in doubt, discuss things with your pediatrician or family doctor. In legal terms, neither Dr. Haas, nor the Institute for Transformative Parenting accepts any responsibility for any bad things that might happen as a result of your doing something you read about here. What you do with your child remains solely your responsibility.
Having said that, we do think much of what is presented here will be helpful for you and your child, and we hope you will consider it carefully.
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